Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Is Love more important than Friendship?

Informal Theme # 2:





Love and friendship are two different things. It is very true that friendship is the initial step to love. But not in all cases, we have some people in our lives that we consider as very good friends. They are always there for you when ever you need them. They wake up at four in the morning to receive your call. Friends are someone with whom you can share all your secrets with. They help you out, talk to you when you need to talk, share your problems, talk to you about their crushes, and hang around. Help you out with your social issues and your personal issue. And love is something not very much different from friendship. Love is a natural feeling, which comes when you start to like or love someone from the depth of your heart. This feeling is very different from all the other feelings. When you see them around you start to get cold sweat, and when they come to talk to you about something, you realize your tongue tight or maybe you’re lost of words. When they touch you, suddenly you can feel butterflies in your stomach, and then it is love. Love and friendship are two very important relations is one’s life. Life can be very beautiful if you both good friends and a loving boyfriend.

This is not wrong statement if one says that love and friendship are alternative terms. Both have their own charms and the answer to their importance varies from situation to situation and even gender to gender. For a woman, love is everything. If she has true love in her life then she will never go for friendships (either male or female). But this aspect also varies because a few women want a friend (instead of love) to sob and to share life matters but a few women always prefer to share everything to the one they love. 

While regarding men, in most of the cases it has been observed that they always need a friend besides their beloveds in their lives because they think that the one they love can not understand them properly. In fact the reason is that a man does not want to show the weaker part of his personality to his beloved while he can share all the things with his friend (either male or female). 


So there is no hard and fast rule to measure the importance of love over friendship or friendship over love. Both can have importance from various aspects in one's life. But if we talk about regardless of gender and situation then we can say that if the friendship is sweeter then love is the sweetest.

Well I would say that love is the most essential part of each and every relation in the world, one can't live a satisfied life without love, and friendship is a relationship which needs the fragrance of love and the shade of trust.

A human being can't live without love and also the friendship, because when you are alone then you need a loving friend who can listen to you and release your tension and can solve your problem, with these two things human being is very alone and can't live in this materialistic world.

Moreover I would say that at some extent one can live without friend but can't live without love because it's the food of our soul, the person who can't love, then also can't make friend. Usually we made many friends in our life, who left behind, and also friendship can break and move on but, the one whom we love stay forever in our heart we can't forget the one who is dear to us.


This is the good luck of a person that, whom, a person loves, is also the friend of a person.

I will end my words with these saying: "The sum of respect is love, The sum of love is relation, The sum of relation is a good friend."

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